Patience is also crucial, Wiesel says. Likewise, Yrigoyen's declaration of love to Kufrin: "You don't give me butterflies, you give me eagles in my stomach".
Okay, we get it!
It was all captured on camera in its hideously awkward glory, but there was one upside: Becca was named this season's bachelorette.
During season 14 of "The Bachelorette", Colton told BacheloretteBecca Kufrin that he'd previously gone on a date with her friend and former "Bachelor" castmate, Tia, but said there was no spark there.
"I would make sure to, like, yeah, just be that man that is strong for her, make sure she's safe and guarded", Garrett said tearfully. A good idea in theory, though not ideal for the guys when the questions got personal.
While sailing on said water, Becca talks about family dynamics and Garrett's sensitivity - a rare [seemingly] serious conversation on the Bachelorette.
You've got a DVR? Mid-answer, Garrett channels his inner Dug from Up by pointing out a pod of dolphins in the water. "I do support our troops and I love my country, so when I saw those posts in the beginning, I would just scroll through - I see a guy in uniform or something like that - and I would just scroll through and just, I don't know, double tap", Yrigoyen explained.
Garrett proposes to Becca in the season finale of "The Bachelorette".
"How would you feel if she didn't pick you, would you be okay?" However, toward the end of the season, Tia admitted to Becca that she still felt she could have a future with Colton.
Becca begs her family to treat Blake exactly the same way they treated Garrett, so Emily does her best to make Blake cry.
Becca leaves behind two sweaty footprints on the dock when they walk away, revealing that she was barefoot because she just couldn't find the right pair of shoes to match her atrocious mermaid dress. "And that's what he's done", she said. "Because we were so solid, I wasn't seeing everything". And there was someone else that she couldn't live without.
Blake instantly fell apart. She tells him that she loves him and they kiss.
And there might be hope for the much-loved grocery store owner after-all, with Bachelor alum Bibiana Julian showing her keen interest in him. "You were not wrong". "That's the thing", she urged him. Let me repeat: Chris Harrison, host of the famously politically mute Bachelor franchise, actually acknowledged that politics exist.
'I think I'll at least last a day'.
Becca called it "an issue that we had to overcome", but said Garrett has been "very transparent throughout the entire thing, and he never held anything back and he understands that it was offensive, but he took full initiative right after that all came out to apologize". "I didn't mean to hurt anybody's feelings or do anything like that".
Becca added that for the longest time, she really thought she would choose him. After being forced to watch himself get dumped, Blake simply nods his head and says, yeah that sucked. "I don't believe David Hogg is a crisis actor". "I have to go through all this alone".
After months of rumors, Becca gave her final rose to controversial contestant Garrett. We move this shindig to the forest, where Blake's sweat and tears mix together in a cocktail of sadness. He showed up for the live after-show, and sat for an uncomfortable interview with Becca. I know, you're shocked.